“For the error bred in the bone
Of each woman and each man
Craves what it cannot have,
Not universal love
But to be loved alone.”

— W. H. Auden , September 1, 1939

Source: September 1, 1939 (1939), Lines 62–66

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Anglo-American poet 1907–1973

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