“In general, we do well to let an opponent's motives alone. We are seldom just to them. Our own motives on such occasions are often worse than those we assail.”

— William Ellery Channing

Source: Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), p. 420

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United States Unitarian clergyman 1780–1842

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