“It is an odd mode of diminishing one's own weakness to ask a friend to lend us the equal force of his.”

— Samuel Laman Blanchard

"That Two Heads are Better than One".
Sketches from Life (1846)

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British author and journalist 1804–1845

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Context: The policy of the emperors and the senate, as far as it concerned religion, was happily seconded by the reflections of the enlightened, and by the habits of the superstitious, part of their subjects. The various modes of worship, which prevailed in the Roman world, were all considered by the people, as equally true; by the philosopher, as equally false; and by the magistrate, as equally useful. And thus toleration produced not only mutual indulgence, but even religious concord.
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