“To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.”

— Robert Louis Stevenson

Familiar Studies of Men and Books http://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/etext96/fsomb10.txt (1882).

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Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer 1850–1894

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