“The fear of ill exceeds the evil we fear,
For so our present harms still most annoy us.”

— Torquato Tasso

E l' aspettar del male è mal peggiore
Forse, che non parrebbe il mal presente.
Canto I, stanza 82 (tr. Fairfax)
Gerusalemme Liberata (1581)

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E l' aspettar del male è mal peggiore Forse, che non parrebbe il mal presente.

Gerusalemme Liberata (1581)

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Italian poet 1544–1595

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