“He wasn't just being selfish, he was being realistic. Marriage would have been very difficult if not downright impossible.'
'Marriage is always very difficult if not downright impossible,' said my father.
'Oh Harry, for God's sake forget I mentioned the group therapy! Run off and listen to a string quartet!”

— Susan Howatch , book The Wheel of Fortune

The Wheel of Fortune (1984), Part 6: Hal

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