“To see ourselves as others see us is a most salutary gift. Hardly less important is the capacity to see others as they see themselves.”

“When we really see the others, not only ourselves, we start to see ourselves in others”

“If we could truly see ourselves the way others see us we'd disappear on the spot.”

“The great Carlyle has said that the best gift God ever gave to man was an eye that could really see; I venture to add that an equally rare and not less important gift is the courage to tell what one sees.”

“When I see myself, I wonder: what do others try to see in themselves?”

“Tact: the ability to describe others as they see themselves.”

“There is fun in being small; we can see other's importance dancing around. There is pleasure in the peacefulness of ego; we can see other's charade.”

“There is a powerful craving in most of us to see ourselves as instruments in the hands of others and thus free ourselves from the responsibility for acts which are prompted by our own questionable inclinations and impulses.”

“Just as much as we see in others we have in ourselves.”

“Friends see most of each other’s flaws. Spouses see every awful last bit.”