“All women love the man who appeals to their maternity. Rudy does that instinctively and it is devastating in its effects on feminine resistance.”

—  Natacha Rambova

On Valentino, p. 58
Photoplay: "Wedded and Parted" (December 1922)

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American film personality and fashion designer 1897–1966

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