“There are lots of ways of being miserable, but there’s only one way of being comfortable, and that is to stop running round after happiness. If you make up your mind not to be happy there’s no reason why you shouldn’t have a fairly good time.”

—  Edith Wharton

Source: Ethan Frome and Other Short Fiction

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American novelist, short story writer, designer 1862–1937

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