“When you title yourself, you immediately lend yourself to all kinds of pretension”
Henry Rollins book Black Coffee Blues
Source: Black Coffee Blues
“Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself.”
— Michel De Montaigne, book Essays
Source: Essais (1595), Book III, Chapter X. Of Managing the Will. End of First Paragraph.
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