“To speak frankly, I am not in favour of long engagements. They give people the opportunity of finding out each other's character before marriage, which I think is never advisable.”

—  Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest

Lady Bracknell, Act III
Source: The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)

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