“Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we're nothing"; - "We accept the love we think we deserve”

—  Stephen Chbosky , book The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Source: The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Last update June 3, 2021. History

Help us to complete the source, original and additional information

Do you have more details about the quote "Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we're nothing"; - "We accept the love we think we deserve" by Stephen Chbosky?
Stephen Chbosky photo
Stephen Chbosky 163
American writer 1970

Related quotes

Alicia Keys photo

“I think we deserve people who really, really love us.”

Alicia Keys (1981) American singer-songwriter, pianist, and actress
Roger Ebert photo

“To know me is to love me. This cliche is popular for a reason, because most of us, I imagine, believe deep in our hearts that if anyone truly got to know us, they'd truly get to love us - or at least know why we're the way we are. The problem in life, maybe the central problem, is that so few people ever seem to have sufficient curiosity to do the job on us that we know we deserve.”

Roger Ebert (1942–2013) American film critic, author, journalist, and TV presenter

Review http://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/tie-me-up-tie-me-down-1990 of Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down! (25 May 1990)
Reviews, Two-and-a-half star reviews

“I mean that to be in a relationship with God is to be loved purely and furiously. And a person who thinks himself unlovable cannot be in a relationship with God because he can't accept who God is; a Being that is love. We learn that we are lovable or unlovable from other people," Paul says. "That is why God tells us so many times to love each other.”

Donald Miller book Blue Like Jazz: nonreligious thoughts on Christian spirituality

Blue Like Jazz (2003, Nelson Books)

“We're taught to expect unconditional love from our parents, but I think it is more the gift our children give us. It's they who love us helplessly, no matter what or who we are.”

Kathryn Harrison book The Kiss

Source: The Kiss

William Gaddis photo

“Why do you treat me as they do, as though I were exactly what I want to be. Why do we treat people that way?”

William Gaddis book The Recognitions

Source: The Recognitions

Gabrielle Zevin photo

“We aren’t the things we collect, acquire, read. We are, for as long as we are here, only love. The things we loved. The people we loved. And these, I think these really do live on”

Gabrielle Zevin (1977) American writer

Source: The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry

Rudy Giuliani photo

“I think the president has to be treated like everyone else. 'Cause I think under the criminal law everybody should be treated the same. I know there are people who would say that the president should be treated stricter. We used to have an era in which the president was treated much more leniently. But I think the right answer is: the president should be treated the same; as far as the criminal law is concerned the president is a citizen.”

Rudy Giuliani (1944–2001) American businessperson and politician, former mayor of New York City

when interviewed by Charlie Rose, July 1998 video of the entire interview https://charlierose.com/videos/17662

Cassandra Clare photo

“There are ways in which we’re so alike. We’re reckless. We don’t think before we act. We’ll do anything for people we love. And I never thought how scary that was for the people who loved me until I saw”

Cassandra Clare The City of Lost Souls

Source: City of Lost Souls

Paulo Coelho photo

“We are used to thinking that what we give is the same as what we receive, but people who love, expecting to be loved in return, are wasting their time. Love is an act of faith, not an exchange.”

Paulo Coelho book Manuscript Found in Accra

Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

Related topics