“Sometimes I dislike women, I dislike us all, because of our capacity for not-thinking when it suits us; we choose not to think when we are reaching our for happiness.”
Source: The Golden Notebook
Help us to complete the source, original and additional information
Doris Lessing 94
British novelist, poet, playwright, librettist, biographer … 1919–2013Related quotes

“I think we are at our best when we work with our natural eruptions, use them as fuel for the fire.”
Sonshi interview

Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow (1886)
Context: All great literary men are shy. I am myself, though I am told it is hardly noticeable. I am glad it is not. It used to be extremely prominent at one time, and was the cause of much misery to myself and discomfort to every one about me—my lady friends especially complained most bitterly about it. A shy man's lot is not a happy one. The men dislike him, the women despise him, and he dislikes and despises himself. Use brings him no relief, and there is no cure for him except time.

“The thoughts we choose to think are the tools we use to paint the canvas of our lives.”

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”