“My mother would take the Band-Aid off, clean the wound, and say, “Things that are covered don’t heal well.” Mother was right. Things that are covered do not heal well.”
Source: Healing the Wounds of the Past
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Couvrez ce sein que je ne saurais voir.
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Act III, sc. ii
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Tirukkural