“Illusions commend themselves to us because they save us pain and allow us to enjoy pleasure instead. We must therefore accept it without complaint when they sometimes collide with a bit of reality against which they are dashed to pieces.”

Source: Reflections on War and Death

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Austrian neurologist known as the founding father of psycho… 1856–1939

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