“a depressed person doesn't want you to try and cheer them up. It makes us
sick.”
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Brandon Sanderson 313
American fantasy writer 1975Related quotes

“The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer someone else up.”
Variant of this quote "The best way to cheer yourself is to cheer somebody else up." is misattributed to Albert Einstein.
Source: According Quote Investigator Mark Twain did write a version of this saying in a personal notebook in 1896, and it was published by 1935 in “Mark Twain’s Notebook”. https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/12/21/cheer-somebody/

“Depression is a democratic sickness: it afflicts everyone.”
cited in TV Ippocrate, Rai News, 13 giugno 2010.
2000s - 2010s

“I don't want to be smart, because being smart makes you depressed.”

Source: A Woman's Thoughts About Women (1858), Ch. 10