“He would wake for no reason in the middle of the night, and the memory of the self-absorbed love was revealed to him for what it was: a pitfall of happiness that he despised and desired at the same time, but from which it was impossible to escape.”

— Gabriel García Márquez, book Love in the Time of Cholera

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Colombian writer 1927–2014

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