“I cried to think of how lucky we both were to have found each other, since it was clear that we were the only ones in the world who could understand what we understood in the instantaneous manner in which we understood it.”

— Audre Lorde , book Zami: A New Spelling of My Name

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writer and activist 1934–1992

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