“Respect for woman, the much lauded chivalry of the Middle Ages, meant what I fear it still means to some men in our own day—respect for the elect few among whom they expect to consort.”

Source: A Voice from the South by a Black Woman of the South (1892), p. 14

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African-American author, educator, speaker and scholar 1858–1964

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