Stephen R. Covey book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Phrase said to have first been used by Wellington, as quoted in notes for 18 September 1836 <br class="br">I hope you will not think I am deficient in feeling toward you, or that I am wanting in desire to serve you, because the results of my attempts have failed, owing to circumstances over which I have no control. <br class="br">As quoted in The Life and Letters of Lady Hester Stanhope (1914) http://www.archive.org/details/lifelettersoflad00clevuoft edited by Catherine Lucy Wilhelmina Powlett, Duchess of Cleveland <br class="br">Notes of Conversations with the Duke of Wellington (1886)
Stephen R. Covey book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
“When we depress, we believe we are the victims of a feeling over which we have no control.”
William Glasser (1925–2013) American psychiatrist
[p.70]
Choice Theory (1997)
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
2016, Memorial Service for Fallen Dallas Police Officers (July 2016)
Context: For all of us, life presents challenges and suffering -- accidents, illnesses, the loss of loved ones. There are times when we are overwhelmed by sudden calamity, natural or manmade. All of us, we make mistakes. And at times we are lost. And as we get older, we learn we don’t always have control of things -- not even a President does. But we do have control over how we respond to the world. We do have control over how we treat one another.
“You don't always control your circumstances, but you can always control your response.”
James Mattis (1950) 26th and current United States Secretary of Defense; United States Marine Corps general
Source: Call Sign Chaos: Learning to Lead (2019), p. 6
Nathuram Godse (1910–1949) Assassin of Mahatma Gandhi
Nathuram Godse: Why I Assassinated Gandhi (1993)
Albert Einstein (1879–1955) German-born physicist and founder of the theory of relativity
1920s, Viereck interview (1929)
Keir Hardie (1856–1915) Scottish socialist and labour leader
Source: From Serfdom to Socialism (1907), pp. 3-4