“It is not that love sometimes makes mistakes, but that it is, essentially, a mistake. We fall in love when our imagination projects nonexistent perfections on to another person. One day the phantasmagoria vanishes, and with it love dies.”

Section 9 (quoted from Ortega y Gasset, “On Love”)
The Einstein Intersection (1967)

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American author, professor and literary critic 1942

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