“We hold that no person or set of persons can properly establish a standard of expression for others.”

“One person ought to treat another person properly, even if the person's himself."
"What a strange idea!”

“We might express this as "all persons are I" or rather as "you and I are the same person."”

“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”

“To build a secure relationship, caretake the insecurity and unsafety of the other person in the relationship. And recognize when you feel insecure or unsafe in your relationship so that you can very quickly initiate re-establishing security and safety with the other person.”

“If we see a romantic partnership as the only relationship that promises to meet our needs, we will put all the pressure on that other person to be the one to meet all of our needs, which is impossible. No one person can meet all of our needs. So, it is a set up for disappointment and for pain.”

“The person holding supreme power always feels that others are plotting a power grab.”

“I hold that a strongly marked personality can influence descendants for generations.”

“One person can't hold anything, but two can have the world…”

“A reliable path for personal growth is following rational standards of personal ideals, of which, fortunately, there are plenty.”