“Compromise is necessary,” Max agreed, “so long as you never give up who you are. That isn’t compromise; that’s spiritual death. You have to remain true to yourself.”

—  Charles de Lint

“Where Desert Spirits Crowd the Night”, p. 291
The Ivory and the Horn (1996)

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