
“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.”
"'A feeling of realistic optimism': An interview with Nadine Gordimer" by Karen Lazar, Salmagundi 113 (Winter 1997)
“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.”
“If you don't like something, change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it.”
“… we've got so many laws you can't breathe without breaking something.”
Source: The Winter of Our Discontent (1961), Part Two, Chapter XIV
“The harder you try to change yourself the worse it gets. You are called upon to be aware.”
"Hidden Agenda" p. 145
Awareness (1992)
Context: Before enlightenment, I used to be depressed; after enlightenment, I continue to be depressed. You don't make a goal out of relaxation and sensitivity. Have you ever heard of people who get tense trying to relax? If one is tense, one simply observes one's tension. You will never understand yourself if you seek to change yourself. The harder you try to change yourself the worse it gets. You are called upon to be aware.