“To know when one's self is interested, is the first condition of interesting other people.”
Source: Marius the Epicurean http://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/etext03/8mrs110.txt (1885), Ch. 6
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“Beware
At war
Or at peace,
More people die
Of unenlightened self-interest
Than of any other disease”
“We are interested in others when they are interested in us.”
Source: How to Win Friends & Influence People
“We are interested in others, when they are interested in us.”
Maxim 16
Sentences, The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, a Roman Slave

“Altruism is masked self-interest. Aggressive self-interest is a masked urge to self-destruction.”
Source: The Forge of God (1987), Chapter 52 (p. 352)

On Coalition Government (1945)

“I'm only interested in people engaged in a project of self-transformation.”
“In the race of life, always back self-interest; at least you know it's trying.”
Fickle fate: Labor keeping an eye out for goddess Fortuna http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/politics/fickle-fate-labor-keeping-an-eye-out-for-goddess-fortuna-20130609-2ny82.html, Sydney Morning Herald, 10 June 2013