“I am admittedly insecure about my racial identity, an attitude that has much improved since my younger days when I absolutely abhorred it. Any attention paid to me being different was incredibly shameful…but the mirrors became too much…what a disappointing reality check!”

—  Margaret Cho

From Her Books, I Have Chosen To Stay And Fight, HATING ONESELF

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