“You cannot reason people into loving those whom they are not drawn to love; they cannot reason themselves into it; and there are some contrarieties of temper which are too strong even for the obligations of relationship.”

— James Anthony Froude, book The Nemesis of Faith

Arthur's second commentary
The Nemesis of Faith (1849)

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