“The extreme pleasure we take in talking about ourselves should make us afraid that we may scarcely be giving any to our listeners.”

—  François de La Rochefoucauld , book Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims

L’extrême plaisir que nous prenons à parler de nous-mêmes nous doit faire craindre de n’en donner guere à ceux qui nous écoutent.
Translation by E.H. Blackmore et. al., in Collected Maxims and Other Reflections, de La Rochefoucauld, Oxford University Press (2008) : ISBN 019162313X
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Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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L’extrême plaisir que nous prenons à parler de nous-mêmes nous doit faire craindre de n’en donner guere à ceux qui nous écoutent.

Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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