“Quarrels would not last long if the fault were only on one side.”

— François de La Rochefoucauld , book Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims

Les querelles ne dureraient pas longtemps, si le tort n'était que d'un côté.
Maxim 496.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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Les querelles ne dureraient pas longtemps, si le tort n'était que d'un côté.

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French author of maxims and memoirs 1613–1680

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