“What we ask is to be human individuals, however peculiar and unexpected. It is no good saying: "You are a little girl and therefore you ought to like dolls"; if the answer is, "But I don't," there is no more to be said.”

—  Dorothy L. Sayers

Source: Are Women Human? Astute and Witty Essays on the Role of Women in Society

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