“You got to be right with yourself before you can be right with anybody else.”
August Wilson (1945–2005) American playwright
Source: Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential
“You got to be right with yourself before you can be right with anybody else.”
August Wilson (1945–2005) American playwright
“If you want to be proud of yourself, then do things in which you can take pride”
Karen Horney (1885–1952) American-German psychoanalyst
Source: Neurosis and Human Growth: The Struggle Towards Self-Realization
David Sedaris (1956) American author
21.07.2001 - p.445
Theft by Finding: Diaries, Volume 1 (1977-2002) (2017)
Clayton M. Christensen (1952–2020) Mormon academic
Christensen (2011) in: Harvard Business Review (2011) HBR's 10 Must Reads on Managing Yourself. p. 12
2010s
Helen Reddy (1941) Australian actress
"Best Friend"; written and sung by Reddy
Lyrics, "I Don't Know How To Love Him"(1971)
Don Marquis (1878–1937) American writer
The Almost Perfect State (1921)
Context: The best good that you can possibly achieve is not good enough if you have to strain yourself all the time to reach it. A thing is only worth doing, and doing again and again, if you can do it rather easily, and get some joy out of it.
Do the best you can, without straining yourself too much and too continuously, and leave the rest to God. If you strain yourself too much you'll have to ask God to patch you up. And for all you know, patching you up may take time that it was planned to use some other way.
BUT... overstrain yourself now and then. For this reason: The things you create easily and joyously will not continue to come easily and joyously unless you yourself are getting bigger all the time. And when you overstrain yourself you are assisting in the creation of a new self — if you get what we mean.
“Because anyone that can make you feel that bad about yourself is toxic.”
Sarah Dessen book The Truth About Forever
Source: The Truth About Forever