“Atticus had said it was the polite thing to talk to people about what they were interested in, not about what you were interested in.”

—  Harper Lee, book To Kill a Mockingbird

Jean Louise (Scout) Finch
Pt. 2, ch. 16
Source: To Kill a Mockingbird (1962)

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