Ellen DeGeneres cytaty

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„Są ludzie którzy nie rozumieją, a to wszystko polega na tym, żeby być szczerym. Ciągle próbujesz być normalny. Normalny? Czy to jest najlepsze słowo? Czy właśnie użyłam tego słowa? Użyję innego, bo nie wiem co to znaczy… Jestem szczęśliwa, bo to jest inne dla każdego. Jestem bardzo zadowolona dokładnie taka, jaką jestem, nawet jeśli to nie jest normalne dla innych. To jest moja normalność. To jest normalne dla mnie.”

„Dziękuję. Nie mogę powiedzieć niczego innego jak tylko dziękować. Moje całe życie. Jestem błogosławiona. Jestem szczęściarą i czuję to każdego dnia.”

„Pamiętam jak jednego dnia wróciłam z przedszkola… powiedziano mi, że to przedszkole. Potem dowiedziałam się, że pracowałam w fabryce przez dwa lata… Zawsze nad tym myślałam, było tam bardzo gorąco i wszyscy byli starsi ode mnie, ale skąd miałam wiedzieć?”

„Ludzie wciąż mnie pytają, czy byłam wesołym dzieckiem. Odpowiadam: „Nie, byłam księgową.””

„To dlatego, że tworzy się takie coś, że to co musisz zrobić w życiu, jeżeli jesteś kobietą, to poznać miłego mężczyznę, wziąć ślub, mieć dzieci i… być akceptowaną. Dziewczyna z sąsiedztwa? Ja jestem po tej drugie stronie.”

„Moja babcia zaczęła biegać osiem kilometrów dziennie, kiedy miała 60 lat. Teraz ma 97 i nie wiemy, gdzie jest.”

„Mówi nam się, żebyśmy żyli tak jak dotychczas, bo inaczej pokażemy terrorystom, że wygrali. Rzeczywiście, czy coś może zdenerwować talibów bardziej niż lesbijka w garniturze, przemawiająca do widowni pełnej Żydów?”

„Mam poważny problem z koncentracją i koleżanka mówi mi: „Musisz iść na terapię”. Myślałam o tym, ale potem myślę: „Chwila. Po co mam płacić obcym za słuchanie mnie, jak obcy mogą płacić za to, że ja mówię?””

„Czy też nie lubicie jak ludzie spóźniają się do pracy? I zawsze mają najgorsze usprawiedliwienie: „Przepraszam, korki…”. Korki, hmmm… A jak myślisz, jak ja tu przybyłam? Helikopterem?”

“The only way a no-legged leopard could hurt you is if it fell out of a tree onto your head.”

“I think beauty comes from actually knowing who you are. That's real beauty to me.”

“Do you live each day as if it's your first or your last? Either way you should probably have a diaper on.”

“Being a teenager and figuring out who you are is hard enough without someone attacking you”

“I am saddened by how people treat one another and how we are so shut off from one another and how we judge one another, when the truth is, we are all one connected thing. We are all from the same exact molecules.”

“That's what life is all about. There's a lot of crying. So you'd better cry now and get used to it.”

“Sometimes the greatest things are the most embarrassing.”

“I like to stretch my mind by reading and writing and watching educational TV shows like The Bachelor to learn the complex mating rituals of heterosexuals.”

“True beauty is about who you are as a human being, your principles, your moral compass.”

“So let that be a lesson, kids who get an F in math. Ellen says you’re doing the right thing. You’re welcome, parents.”

“Don't you hate when people are late to work. And they always have the worst excuses. "Oh, I'm sorry I'm late, traffic." "Traffic, huh? How do you think I got here; helicoptered in!?"”

“Now we have hands-free phones, so you can focus on the thing you're really supposed to be doing … chances are, if you need both of your hands to do something, your brain should be in on it too.”

“I just like observing people — it's something I've done ever since I was a kid, and I got really good at it. That's a big part of why I became a comedian. My audience is filled with every kind of person you can imagine, and I love that.”

“"I knew if I came out, there was a possibility I would lose my career. But I didn't do it for my career, I did it for me to live my truth," she says. "I thought, 'I don't want to live and have any shame whatsoever.' I should be proud of who I am, and I don't care if people approve or not. It is who I am."”

“I think the hard thing about this job [stand-up] — I mean, I think this part is great — but that the traveling is y'know, 'cause — 'cause I'm gone a lot from home and this time I'm out for three-and-a-half weeks without going home, and that's hard, to be gone three-and-a-half weeks 'cause then I have to ask my friends, "Would you mind going to the house and watering the plants, and turn some lights on and make it look like somebody's home, and make sure that the mobile over the crib isn't tangled or the baby's gonna get bored…"”

“My name is Ellen and I'm a vegetarian. Just to add another label to me: I am a lesbian, aquarian and vegetarian. I've said it…”

“You have to have funny faces and words, you can't just have words. It is a powerful thing, and I think that's why it's hard for people to imagine that women can do that, be that powerful.”

“I learned compassion from being discriminated against. Everything bad that's ever happened to me has taught me compassion.”

“For a long time I thought I knew for sure who I was. I grew up in New Orleans and became a comedian. And there was everything that came along with that. The nightclubs. The smoking. The drinking. Then I turned 13.”

“With all of our differences, we [members of the audience] all have one thing in common, we’re all gay. Now there are people out there [in audience] going “Do they think we’re gay because we’re here? Do we look gay? I told you this would happen. We’re not going to understand a word of this.” Seriously, though, if you're here you're probably gay. I mean, you have tendencies, you've thought about it. Now there are people [in audience] going “I have thought about it. Does that mean I'm gay? I'm not gay. Is that how they get us?””

“I don't want to get the same looks I give people when they get on a plane holding a baby: "That's a cute baby, just keep walking, keep walking, keep going, keep going…."”

“I wish that I wasn't seen differently. I wish that people looked at me and just saw that I was a good person with a good heart. And that wants to make people laugh. And that's who I am. I also happen to be gay. And I would love to have the same rights as everybody else. I would love, I don't care if it's called marriage. I don't care if it's called, you know, domestic partnership. I don't care what it's called. I mean, there are couples that have been together, 30 years, 40 years. And all of a sudden, they lose their house, you know, the taxes kill them, because it's different because they're not married. Everything is taken away just because. You know, with Sept. 11, there are a lot of people that lost their partner and didn't get the same benefits. It's not fair. And at the same time I know there are people watching right now saying, you know, it's sick it's wrong, it's this. And it's like, I can't convince them that I'm not sick or wrong, that there's nothing wrong with me. You know, I can live my life and hope that things change, and hope that we're protected as any other couples”

“I think I'm healthier than I've ever been. I'm happier than I've ever been. I'm more myself. I can't stress that enough," Ellen says. "I think kindness is the key to yourself and to other people. … I think I found out who I was, and I think I really try to be a better person every single day. And she [sc. Portia de Rossi, her wife] makes me better.”

“Yes, we're lazy. Yet we also can't seem to sit still. So we've started making things like GO-GURT. That's yogurt for people on the go. Let me ask you, was there a big mobility problem with yogurt before? How time-consuming was it, really? [pretending to be on the phone:] "Hello?…Oh, hi, Tom…oh, I've been dying to see that movie…Umm, no…I just opened up some yogurt…Yeah, I'm in for the night…No, not even later-it's the kind with fruit on the bottom. Well, have fun. Thanks anyway."”

“I'm a — I'm a, um, a godmother which is just, that's fun to be a godmother, she is so precious, she's the light of my life, she's two… or five or something, and she's, uh… I don't know, I've never seen her — the pictures are precious, she just seems so, y'know… She lives clear across town, I don't have that kind of time, but, um… Well, I send money and stuff, it's not like I don't have a connection….”

“Sometimes when I am driving I get so angry at inconsiderate drivers that I want to scream at them. But then I remember how insignificant that is, and I thank God that I have a car and my health and gas. That was phrased wrong — normally you wouldn't say, thank God I have gas.”

“But I do believe that's when you do your soul-searching. I think when you have these trials that life gives you, it is an opportunity to find out who you are. Not just who you are when everything's great, but who are you when every thing is taken away from you and you have nothing.”

“They say you just stand over there, he'll say thank you and you walk back off and that's what I thought was gonna happen, but in my head, I had for five or six years known that he was gonna call me over.”

“Ellen: I think one of the turning points in my life came a few years ago. I started going to sleep at night just talking to myself, saying, "You're perfect just the way you are," because I used to beat myself up about weight and working out, and no matter what I did I never felt good about myself. I decided to accept myself and know that I am good. Just those affirmations every night changed my belief in who I was because I had been told for so long, over and over, that I was something else. That brings us to another agreement: Don't make assumptions—because we assume that when people do something or say something to you, they mean just what we think they mean.”