“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Source: I Capture the Castle
Source: The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation
“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Source: I Capture the Castle
Love is not a feeling ~ The Article (1995)
Context: In other words, to be enlightened of the acquired burden every spiritual belief and notion has to be abandoned, every reference to what any spiritual teacher or master has ever said must be set aside. What does that leave? Your own experience. Not your historical or memorable experience, for that's the problem. Your own experience is your self-knowledge of life. Let's establish once and for all what this means now. Forget everything I've said in this article except this question: Do I want to suffer or not suffer NOW? That's the only truth for you. There's no tradition, no past, no discussion in it. It's all you need. Keep it with you and at the next temptation to suffer it will prevent you suffering. But only if you've learned in your own experience what causes you to suffer. If you haven't learned that, you're still attached to suffering and will unwittingly embrace it. In that case you have to read on, take more time and ask yourself more questions.
Source: This is All: The Pillow Book of Cordelia Kenn
Thoughts and Aphorisms (1913), Karma
Source: Way of the Peaceful Warrior: A Book That Changes Lives