“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
André Gide (1869–1951) French novelist and essayist
Frequently misattributed to Marilyn Monroe or Kurt Cobain.
Source: https://books.google.com/books?id=xUtdDnEhkMMC&pg=PT12&lpg=PT12#v=onepage&q&f=false
Source: Autumn Leaves, Philosophical eLibrary, 2012, (Feuillets d'automne, 1941, trans. Jeanine Parisier Plottel)
“I paint what you love to hate and what you hate to love.”
Riiko Sakkinen (1976) Finnish visual artist
"Riiko Sakkinen" at riikosakkinen.com
“Don't tell me you don't know what love is
When you're old enough to know better.”
Elvis Costello (1954) English singer-songwriter
Everyday I Write The Book
Song lyrics, Punch the Clock (1983)
“If you betray me, can I take a better revenge
Than to love the person you hate?”
Pierre Corneille Tite et Bérénice
Me puis-je mieux venger, si vous me trahissez,
Que d'aimer à vos yeux ce que vous haïssez?
Domitien, act IV, scene iii.
Tite et Bérénice (Titus and Berenice) (1670)
“To get what you love, you must first be patient with what you hate.”
Abu Hamid al-Ghazali (1058–1111) Persian Muslim theologian, jurist, philosopher, and mystic
al-Ghazali https://awakenthegreatnesswithin.com/35-inspirational-imam-al-ghazali-quotes-on-success/
“Say what you will, 'tis better to be left than never to have been loved.”
William Congreve The Way of the World
Act II, scene i. Precedent for Alfred Tennyson's more famous: "'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"
The Way of the World (1700)
