“No one can build his security upon the nobleness of another person.”

— Willa Cather, book Alexander's Bridge

Alexander's Bridge (1912) Ch. 8
Context: No one can build his security upon the nobleness of another person. Two people, when they love each other, grow alike in their tastes and habits and pride, but their moral natures (whatever we may mean by that canting expression) are never welded. The base one goes on being base, and the noble one noble, to the end.

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American writer and novelist 1873–1947

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