“It is useless to talk with those who do not understand one and troublesome to talk with those who criticize from a feeling of superiority. Especially one-sided persons are troublesome. Few are accomplished in many arts and most cling narrowly to their own opinion.”

— Murasaki Shikibu, book The Diary of Lady Murasaki

In Diaries of Court Ladies of Old Japan
The Diary of Lady Murasaki

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Japanese novelist, poet during the Heian period. best known… 973–1014

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“It is useless to talk with those who do not understand one and troublesome to talk with those who criticize from a feeling of superiority. Especially one-sided persons are troublesome. Few are accomplished in many arts and most cling narrowly to their own opinion.”

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