“A young man should serve his parents at home and be respectful to elders outside his home. He should be earnest and truthful, loving all, but become intimate with humaneness. After doing this, if he has energy to spare, he can study literature and the arts.”

—  Confucius

Source: The Analects, Other chapters

Original

弟子，入則孝，出則弟，謹而信，凡愛眾，而親仁。行有餘力，則以學文。

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Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher -551–-479 BC

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