“When you argue with a child," she said warmly, "you give a good argument and the child says yah, yah! You understand him and he doesn't listen, so the child wins.”

—  John Steinbeck, book Burning Bright

Mordeen to Victor in Act One: The Circus
Burning Bright (1950)

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