“Hate came in a maelstrom, and we called it several things—racism, pedophilia, justice, righteousness—but all those words were just ribbons and wrapping paper on a soiled gift that no one wanted to open.”

—  Dennis Lehane , book A Drink Before the War

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A Drink Before the War (1994)

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