“We should often be ashamed of our very best actions if the world only saw the motives which caused them.”

— François de La Rochefoucauld, book Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims

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Nous aurions souvent honte de nos plus belles actions, si le monde voyoit tous les motifs qui les produisent.
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