“If you really want to possess a woman, you must think like her, and the first thing to do is win over her soul. The rest, that sweet, soft wrapping that steals away your senses and your virtue, is a bonus.”

— Carlos Ruiz Zafón , book The Shadow of the Wind

Source: The Shadow of the Wind

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