“When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.”

— Confucius

Variant: When you see a man of worth, think of how you may emulate him. When you see one who is unworthy, examine yourself.

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Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher -551–-479 BC

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