
“It is a common delusion that you make things better by talking about them.”
Source: Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?
“It is a common delusion that you make things better by talking about them.”
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas, in AbuDawud, Book 38, Number 4447
Sunni Hadith
“You must fight or capitulate to those with whom you refuse to talk.”
Other
Letter to Mary Allen Hulbert Peck (1 August 1909), PWW 19:321
1900s
“You can never solve a problem without talking to people with whom you disagree.”
As quoted in "Andrea Mitchell's exclusive interview with Sen. Olympia Snowe" by Weesie Vieira (29 February 2012) http://info.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/02/29/10541107-transcript-andrea-mitchells-exclusive-interview-with-sen-olympia-snowe.
Context: What are our obligations to the country and to the people we represent? It's the coming up with effective solutions, sitting down and working with the issues. Sitting around table and sorting through the differences.
You can never solve a problem without talking to people with whom you disagree. The United States Senate is predicated and based on consensus building. That was certainly the vision of the founding fathers. And if we abandon that approach, then we do it at the expense of the country and the issues that we need to address to put us back on track.