
“Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.”
Source: Mad Love
“Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.”
Source: Mad Love
Variant: When you see a man of worth, think of how you may emulate him. When you see one who is unworthy, examine yourself.
“It's as if when you love someone, they become your reason.”
Source: Every Day
1920s, Truth is a Pathless Land (1929)
Context: Your prejudices, your fears, your authorities, your churches new and old – all these, I maintain, are a barrier to understanding. I cannot make myself clearer than this. I do not want you to agree with me, I do not want you to follow me, I want you to understand what I am saying. “This understanding is necessary because your belief has not transformed you but only complicated you, and because you are not willing to face things as they are. You want to have your own gods – new gods instead of the old, new religions instead of the old, new forms instead of the old – all equally valueless, all barriers, all limitations, all crutches. Instead of old spiritual distinctions you have new spiritual distinctions, instead of old worships you have new worships. You are all depending for your spirituality on someone else, for your happiness on someone else, for your enlightenment on someone else; and although you have been preparing for me for eighteen years, when I say all these things are unnecessary, when I say that you must put them all away and look within yourselves for the enlightenment, for the glory, for the purification, and for the incorruptibility of the self, not one of you is willing to do it. There may be a few, but very, very few. So why have an organization?
Source: How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater
“If you meet someone whose soul is not aligned with yours, send them love and move along.”