“Don't try to be better than others. Try to be better than yourself.”
Zire Notes (May 2004 - December 2006)
Letter to his brother Frank (14 October 1929), published in Robert Oppenheimer : Letters and Recollections (1995) edited by Alice Kimball Smith, p. 136
Context: Everyone wants rather to be pleasing to women and that desire is not altogether, though it is very largely, a manifestation of vanity. But one cannot aim to be pleasing to women any more than one can aim to have taste, or beauty of expression, or happiness; for these things are not specific aims which one may learn to attain; they are descriptions of the adequacy of one's living. To try to be happy is to try to build a machine with no other specification than that it shall run noiselessly.
“Don't try to be better than others. Try to be better than yourself.”
Zire Notes (May 2004 - December 2006)
“I will not try to run my own life or the lives of others; that is God's business.”
Source: A Long Obedience in the Same Direction: Discipleship in an Instant Society
“The most worth-while thing is to try to put happiness into the lives of others.”
Letter (September 1940)
“In judging myself I shall try to be as harsh as truth, as I want others also to be.”
Introduction
1920s, An Autobiography (1927)
Context: In judging myself I shall try to be as harsh as truth, as I want others also to be. Measuring myself by that standard I must exclaim with Surdas: ' Where is there a wretch So wicked and loathsome as I? I have forsaken my Maker, So faithless have I been.' For it is an unbroken torture to me that I am still so far from him, who, as I fully know, governs every breath of my life, and whose offspring I am. I know that it is the evil passions within that keep me so far from Him, and yet I cannot get away from them.
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“You could be happy, the minute you try.
Why won't you try? Oh won't you try?”
The Joy in Forgetting - The Joy in Acceptance
Insound Tour Support No.12 (2000)
“You will never ever be happy if you were trying to change who you are to fit in with others.”
Source: https://twitter.com/canlubochris/status/1260612300135788546 | Christian Canlubo personal Twitter account
Published by Christian Canlubo on his twitter https://twitter.com/canlubochris account
Source: A Woman's Thoughts About Women (1858), Ch. 10