“A bride at her second marriage does not wear a veil. She wants to see what she is getting.”
Helen Rowland (1875–1950) American journalist
Second Marriages
A Guide to Men (1922)
Address to the British Association for the Advancement of Science (1898)
Context: In old Egyptian days a well known inscription was carved over the portal of the temple of Isis: "I am whatever hath been, is, or ever will be; and my veil no man hath yet lifted." Not thus do modern seekers after truth confront nature — the word that stands for the baffling mysteries of the universe. Steadily, unflinchingly, we strive to pierce the inmost heart of Nature, from what she is to reconstruct what she has been, and to prophesy what she yet shall be. Veil after veil we have lifted, and her face grows more beautiful, august, and wonderful with every barrier that is withdrawn.
“A bride at her second marriage does not wear a veil. She wants to see what she is getting.”
Helen Rowland (1875–1950) American journalist
Second Marriages
A Guide to Men (1922)
Anacreon (-570–-485 BC) Greek lyric poet, notable for his drinking songs and hymns
Odes, XXIV.
Variant: The bull by nature hath his horns, The horse his hoofs, to daunt their foes; The light-foot hare the hunter scorns; The lion's teeth his strength disclose.The fish, by swimming, 'scapes the weel; The bird, by flight, the fowler's net; With wisdom man is arm'd as steel; Poor women none of these can get. What have they then?—fair Beauty's grace, A two-edged sword, a trusty shield; No force resists a lovely face, Both fire and sword to Beauty yield.
Honoré de Balzac book A Woman of Thirty
La jeune fille n'a qu'une coquetterie, et croit avoir tout dit quand elle a quitté son vêtement; mais la femme en a d'innombrables et se cache sous mille voiles; enfin elle caresse toutes les vanités, et la novice n'en flatte qu'une. Il s'émeut d'ailleurs des indécisions, des terreurs, des craintes, des troubles et des orages chez la femme de trente ans, qui ne se rencontrent jamais dans l'amour d'une jeune fille.Arrivée à cet âge, la femme demande à un jeune homme de lui restituer l'estime qu'elle lui a sacrifiée; elle ne vit que pour lui, s'occupe de son avenir, lui veut une belle vie, la lui ordonne glorieuse; elle obéit, elle prie et commande, s'abaisse et s'élève, et sait consoler en mille occasions, où la jeune fille ne sait que gémir.
Source: A Woman of Thirty (1842), Ch. III: At Thirty Years.
Pope Benedict XVI (1927) 265th Pope of the Catholic Church
2008, Angelus following the Closing Mass (19 July 2008)
Letitia Elizabeth Landon (1802–1838) English poet and novelist
The Golden Violet - The Queen of Cyprus
The Golden Violet (1827)
Milan Kundera book The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Source: The Unbearable Lightness of Being (1984), Part Three: Words Misunderstood, Ch. 10
Novalis (1772–1801) German poet and writer
Novalis here alludes to Plutarch's account of the shrine of the goddess Minerva, identified with Isis, at Sais, which he reports had the inscription "I am all that hath been, and is, and shall be; and my veil no mortal has hitherto raised."
Pupils at Sais (1799)
Felix Adler (1851–1933) German American professor of political and social ethics, rationalist, and lecturer
Section 2 : Religion
Founding Address (1876), Life and Destiny (1913)