“My association is so painfully close that avoidance is the only way I know to retain my identity. It's ridiculous and embarrassing. I hate feeling this way, because it forces me to see how deeply racism has affected me.”

—  Margaret Cho

From Her Books, I Have Chosen To Stay And Fight, MENTAL COLONIZATION

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