“When you counsel someone, you should appear to be reminding him of something he had forgotten, not of the light he was unable to see.”

— Baltasar Gracián, book The Art of Worldly Wisdom

Que el aviso haga antes viso de recuerdo de lo que olvidava que de luz de lo que no alcançó.
Maxim 7 (p. 4)
The Art of Worldly Wisdom (1647)

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