“Only a numskull is pleased at being a so-called 'success' with women, only a dunderhead is puffed up by it. A real man is much more likely to be dismayed at realizing that a woman has lost her heart to him when he can't reciprocate her feelings.”

— Stefan Zweig, book Beware of Pity

Beware of Pity (1939)

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Austrian writer 1881–1942

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